The fundamental tenet of BDSM play is “Safe, Sane, Consensual.†This isn’t Ma Cherie’s Kink U* so I’ll sum up: Don’t kill each other. Don’t be too drunk or under the influence of other, ahem, substances to make rational decisions. Respect each other’s limits.
Ma Cherie
When people ask me about my Labor Day weekend, my polite answer has been the aforementioned title (since I love film references). The reply closer to reality would be: beer, sex, and cigarettes. Since I’d rather not write an entire novel on this lost weekend, I’ll give you the blow-by-blow by the hours.
What? Did you expect me to talk about virginity? Or how about my wedding day? I could talk about both. I lost my virginity on the first date with my first love. My wedding day never came because my fiancé of seven years left me last year. Now that we’ve gotten that out of the way, on to the good stuff…