Lessons

Some of us are just not looking for a relationship. We have our reasons—and I don’t think there is anything necessarily wrong with it, assuming, of course, that you don’t behave like a total douchebag. I wrote a piece for Manolith this week that spells out how to go about acquiring and keeping happy lovers.…continue reading.

This is an excerpt from the unabridged Kama Sutra, a sacred Indian text about the art of love and eroticism. One thing certain is that a man whose activity lasts long pleases women, while on the other hand they complain of men who reach orgasm quickly. Satisfied tranquility is not to be found among women…continue reading.

I love machines and I’m also a creature of comfort, I can’t tell you how much I dig cars that allow you to get the heat or A/C going before you even leave your house. Now that, that is sexy. And now, you can too can enjoy this luxury in your good ol’ ride, courtesy…continue reading.

We know that porn is no longer simply the realm of men, but just how many women are down? Dr. Yvonne Fulbright, founder of Sexuality Source and a sex columnist for Fox News, explores the inconsistencies in data: During the first third of 2007, the Nielsen/Net Ratings reported that about one in three visitors to…continue reading.

Debby Herbernick, the sex professor and author of Because It Feels Good has some pointers for getting it on wet and wild-style: Wet doesn’t actually mean lubricated. “As anyone who has spent significant time in a bath tub or shower knows, warm water can dry the skin and turn us all a bit prune-like,” she…continue reading.

My friend has been talking about this girl for months. After a while of being unable to express any emotion for anyone, it seems he’s finally found his heart. The problem? I know this girl. She’s a well-known man-eater. She went out with another friend of mine for a while, totally used him, and left…continue reading.

Every once in a while, a situation calls for it. You spent the hottest night with someone and you need to commemorate it. Hey, I’m not judging, we’re all oversharers here. Not to mention, there is nothing more erotic than being immortalized by a lover in well-written prose. But how to go about writing out…continue reading.

We know, we know, malls are horrible things. But there’s a chance they’re getting better–at least here in Southern California. Introducing: the One Touch Concierge, an application for iPhone, BlackBerry or computer that allows you to make requests and get interactive service, such as arranging for a stroller, wheelchair, bell cart, making restaurant reservations, and…continue reading.

Ladies, if there is anything I would like to stress in this piece, it is the all too forgotten power of ink and penmanship… In this overly digital age, we have completely lost sight of the sexiness that is a woman’s handwriting. Mix that with the intentions to show both gratitude for an evening of…continue reading.