Ã¢â‚¬Å“A man is only as faithful as his options.Ã¢â‚¬Â
These incredibly insightful words were taken from one of Chris RockÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s comedy acts. And, if you think about it, the statement makes all the sense in the world. Men are men after all. Primal animals at the core who oftentimes get led astray when good intentions fall victim to overwhelming temptations, resulting in poor decisions.
American journalism is completely inundated these days with news of Tiger Woods, and all of his extra-marital sexual indiscretions. Most of the world watched, with its figurative jaw on the floor, as woman after woman came forward to throw salt on the wounds of TigerÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s evidently chaffed penis.
I imagine him much more like Tiger Claus at this time of the year, singing out to his ladies strapped in to pull his sleighÃ¢â‚¬Â¦ “On Rachel, on Jamie, on Kalika, on CoriÃ¢â‚¬Â¦” After all, “if Santa was black”, was indeed a trending topic on TwitterÃ¢â‚¬Â¦ and it couldnÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t just be coincidental. Tiger was clearly providing a service to these ladies, and in turn, they provided a service right back. Tiger Claus.
But what I donÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t need to hear or see is another dick in the media who claims to be a doctor of “this” and a specialist of “that”, voicing their opinions on the man’s psyche. Dr. Drew, people seem to like you, so I wonÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t get all up in your grill, but please, shut the fuck up. Sexual addiction?
Let me drop a little science, and a little man knowledge your way. Guys who are “sexually addicted” masturbate in the bathroom stalls of fast food restaurants.
Guys that can get ample amounts of pussy because beautiful women throw it in their face all day, every day? They are called men.
The power of temptations mixed with hormones has been shaping history since the beginning of civilizations. Anyone familiar with classic literature remembers Helen being the face that launched a thousand ships. Do you really think Paris didn’t have a chick back in Troy that thought he was just off settling world conflicts, and sleeping with her picture on the pillow next to him? Give me a break. Women, like anything coveted in life, are a spoil that goes to the victor. And it will never change.
However, please do not misunderstand my point to this article. I do not condone a married man, and a father of two, spreading his seed along the PGA tour stops. I find it terrible, and I find it even more terrible that he must face all of this scrutiny and judgment in the public eye. If we were really to know Tiger, I would imagine we would find a man who felt he had been stripped of much of his youth. He was protected as a child, removed from many offerings because of his forced devotion to the game of golf. Probably did not have many friends, and even fewer girls that took notice. Fast forward 10 years, he has he world by the balls, and even the pretty white girls are chasing him down now. Just because he could, Tiger decided to marry the whitest girl walking the earth–a big fuck you to all the circles that wouldnÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t accept him in his youth.
But, let me take it a step further. If Tiger were just looking to satiate his “sexual addiction”, these women would have remained nameless faceless vaginas, with very little to zero follow-through after the fucking. But it didnÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t go down like that did it? You could see that Tiger, though married, was finding something in these women. Something he needed that he very clearly wasnÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t getting from his wife.
Here is a newsflash to all of the Dr. Drews, and countless feminist bitches that felt the need to voice opinions on these events: sticking your dick in something warm, wet, and tight feels really really, REALLY good. As a matter of fact, IÃ¢â‚¬â„¢m smiling right now just thinking of it. We are all born “addicted” to sex, you mindless fucks. It is how our species continues. If we didnÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t like it, we wouldnÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t do it!
And, why is it no one ever looks to the woman in these cases? It is always about the hedonistic man and his inability to keep his dick in his pants. And you get outcries of support for her, and her fragile being. Even T-shirts to dually show your concern, as well as your hope for the destruction of yet another ruinous man. Why can’t we ever accept as a society that sometimes a wife just canÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t give you everything you need? Sometimes the woman in your life just doesn’t get it done. It’s quite possible Tiger’s dick hasn’t come out of his pants, in front of his wife, since the birth of his second child. These things happen. These so called specialists should be spending a lot more of their time and efforts looking into a male’s willingness to sexually desecrate the mother of his children.
I would imagine the desire to act on your sexual needs and aggressions gets incredibly diminished after childrenÃ¢â‚¬Â¦ but what would I know, IÃ¢â‚¬â„¢m neither a psychologist nor a feminist.
So, I will wrap it up by adding my two cents: actors, rockstars, public figures, and athletes are always going to have copious amounts of ass thrown in their faces. Women can’t help themselves, and they are hand-picking, providing, and selling the proverbial desirous apple. My advice to these types of people would fall into two distinct buckets: 1.) do not get married until you are done with your careers, with craving the spotlight, and are for sure certain you are ready to settle down; and 2.) you should really be subscribing to bucket #1, but if you must get married, make sure you marry a woman that understands there are going to be instances on the road when you will be indeed, loving the one you’re with.
I believe my sentiments can be fully summarized with one more quote from Chris Rock: “That tiger didn’t go crazyÃ¢â‚¬Â¦ that tiger went tiger!” Think about it.
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